When school starts, schedules often change to accommodate early bed times for earlier rise times. As we all transition, we often run into small moments of frustration. For students, this often coincides with homework. Whether your child is a first year kindergartener or acclaimed fifth grader, he or she could benefit from parental oversight. Here are eight homework tips for parents to help you and your son or daughter cope better with homework blues. Let’s set them up for success and limit homework frustrations.

1. Time it right

It may take a bit of trial and error to figure out when your child is most creative or ready to sit down and focus. While it may make sense from a scheduling perspective to push your child to get homework done immediately after school, this time may be when they are at their lowest energy level. Try asking your child about his or her preferences, and use the first few weeks of school to experiment a little – you may just find the perfect “slot” that works for them and the rest of the family.

2. Make sure the basics are covered: Food and Sleep

There is nothing worse than trying to concentrate on a tired mind or a rumbling tummy. And despite the fact that your child stopped napping when he was two, he or she may benefit from a quick shut-eye before beginning homework. A snack right before, or with homework, may be helpful, too. Many kids are too excited at lunchtime to actually eat their food and come home starving. Offer protein-rich foods that don’t trigger sugar spikes like bananas with peanut butter or Trail Mix, so their energy lasts until homework is done.

3. Create the right space to study

While it’s not a “must” to create a formal environment, many kids are motivated when they have their own space to focus. Encourage them to find their own style and take pride in creating the best setting for their success. Help them decorate and personalize it, and check on how to best evolve the space to suit their changing needs. Getting and staying organized is a very important skill to learn during these formative years, and creating the right environment to establish and reinforce good habits can make a real difference. (See all of our study lofts for inspiration.)

Corner Loft with Desk for Girls

4. Limit distractions

Siblings, pets, visitors… who can concentrate when the house is full of distractions? Limit them by either timing homework during hours of low activity (i.e. before the rest of the family barges in), or encouraging a “closed door” location to complete homework before re-joining the action going on in the rest of the house. Some kids do better with some background noise (like soft music), which can help drown out other sounds. If your child struggles with distractions, you may want to check whether a set of earphones with soothing sounds can help them concentrate.

5. Offer the right help when they are stuck

When your child asks for help, try asking questions, and offer different perspectives or ways to imagine the same problem. Visualize a math challenge, or relate it back to a real life situation he or she will remember. Don’t give them the answer – it’s their problem to solve. If they still can’t get it right, see if another member of the family or a friend can provide another perspective. If all else fails, it’s OK to admit to the teacher that he or she worked hard on a problem but simply could not solve it.


6. Incentivize

Depending on the age of your child, the right incentives can work wonders, and really motivate kids to complete their homework – accurately! Have an avid Minecrafter? Give them 30 minutes playtime after homework is completed. Desperate for that playdate? Coordinate with the parents to make sure homework is completed before they get together. If you choose this strategy, be careful to follow through, though – if it’s not done right, the rewards need to be delayed or cancelled altogether. So pick rewards that are fully under your control and won’t disappoint other kids or interfere with activities that you care about.

7. Get – and stay – in touch with the teacher

Beyond the scheduled conferences, most teachers appreciate informal check-ins and opportunities to connect with parents. Ask them what strategies they suggest and whether they have any feedback.

8. Value their work

Celebrate achievements! Show off their completed projects to other family members, and tell stories about successes to others. Bring positive energy to a job well done, and motivation will follow.

Do you have more tips for parents – helping your child complete homework? Please share with us!


What an exciting day we had at Totally Kids today! We were able to meet with the founder of Pawsitivity Service Dogs. If you haven’t heard of this nonprofit before, we highly recommend that you take some time to read their About Us page.

Tom and Julie Coleman founded Pawsitivity Service Dogs four years ago. Their mission is to bring positivity to families with children on the autism spectrum. Seeing firsthand how dogs can help children with autism and realizing that there was no organization doing this in MN, prompted them to start training dogs right away.

Pawsitivity takes rescue dogs that need a new lease on life and trains them to be service dogs. About 1 out of 1000 dogs can be trained to be service dogs.  They figure out, depending on the dog’s personality and energy level, which family the dog would be best fit. Service dogs have also been proven to help adults with severe depression or PTSD, among other disorders and disabilities .

“If you have met one child with autism, you’ve met one child with autism” Tom says. Which is why they train each dog and family individually. They are a small organization, and they plan to stay that way. Tom and Julie know that the 900 hours they put into training each dog will meet their high standards, and the end result is astounding.

Visit their website for the many heartwarming success stories Pawsitivity Service Dogs.


Now through the entire month of August you can help raise awareness of these important dogs by donating to Pawsitivity, and in return Totally Kids will give you 10% OFF your entire purchase.

All it takes is a $10 donation to save on anything storewide and online. We look forward to this new sponsorship and encourage everyone to help make a difference.



Totally Kids is proudly sponsoring Pawsitivity Service Dogs.

We are an official sponsor for Pawsitivity Service Dogs of St. Paul, MN. Pawsitivity is an award-winning, donation-based, non-profit organization that focuses their efforts on training service dogs to assist children with special needs. Totally Kids will be pairing with the non-profit for the whole month of August, in an attempt to raise money for the organization.

Come meet a service dog at Totally Kids Saturday, August 15th from 10am -12pm.

The fun doesn’t stop there! All day Saturday, August 15th here will be treats, face painting, fun games and prizes. Now through the entire month of August you can help raise awareness of these important dogs by donating to Pawsitivity, and in return we will give you 10% OFF your entire purchase. All it takes is a $10 donation to save on anything storewide. We look forward to this new sponsorship and encourage everyone to help make a difference.

Please join Totally Kids for the month of August to help out a great cause!

We hope to see you soon!

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Now through July 27th

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Why not build a snowman in July?


Find the recipe for fun here.

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Look at Frosty go.
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Over the hills of snow.

Hurry and have some fun before he really melts away.

Have a happy Father’s Day at your house.

Imagine the surprise on your father’s face when he is served these special Pancake Pops on Father’s Day morning.

This week’s Recipe for Fun looks like a true win win for pancake lov’n Dad and the kids. Melissa from Number-2 Pencil blog, will show you in a colorful pictorial how to make these bite size pancakes from scratch using creamy Greek yogurt, cooked on a lollipop stick. We know these Pancake Pops for Pops will be a favorite at your house, and not reserved just for Father’s Day breakfast.

WINNIPEG Hochbett 4.1

We celebrated the unexpected (to us) public holiday last Friday, May Day in Germany when absolutely everything is closed. The three day weekend allowed us to visit northern Germany and enjoy the picturesque scenery plus all the colorfully decorated May Poles.

Now, back to our mission of finding what’s new and exciting for kids. Take a look these winners –  German Adventure Beds that will grow with your child from first big bed to college loft. The accessories make these not only beds for dreaming, but most definitely in a child’s eyes, dream beds. Add a slide, swinging rope, crane, hammock, ships steering wheel and more.

GRAN CANYON bunk bed

Clever and crazy fun beds offering space for four lucky kids.

Hochbett weiß

Ahoy mateys, this could be your next treasure.

MONTEREY Etagenbett 1

Rainy day entertainment found indoors.

AMARILLO Etagenbett 1

Easily add play space under this model.

WINNIPEG loft bed 4.8

Always a princess – she deserves her own castle with storage and work space under the loft.

These adventure beds not only help to develop the mental and physical abilities of children but are child friendly and durable.

Stay tuned as we add more findings from the land of innovation.

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We have arrived in Germany. The first finding on our quest to find what is new and exciting for kids is some whimsical art.

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Tina’s Tiny Baby Doll.

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Up Up and Away. (photoghraper’s error: with the top cut off)

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Raindrops and Balloons.

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I Heart Sail Boats.

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Family Ties

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It’s a Little Fishy in the Rain.

Please tell us what you think about these pieces.

Seed Hearts

Not too long ago we were thinking of the winter birds and seeds. Now, with Valentine’s Day fast approaching, seeds blended into heart shapes for friends and family will be a Science Saturday project for the kiddos. We will see if ours turn out as pretty as the inspirational hearts from Hill City Bride. She used them for wedding favors and has a beautiful tutorial.

Seed Bombs

Jamie from Dabbles and Babbles makes these Valentine Seed Bombs that we will attempt making one of these days. Our friends in southern states will be able to plant them weeks before the snow melts here in Minnesota. We will be forced to wait until May for our plantings. But until then, they will provide decoration in a glass vase reminding of future springtime days filled sunshine and summer flowers. Hop on over to Dabbles and Babbles and learn how to create your own Heart Shaped Seed Bombs.

Hope that you give these a try!

London Bus        Little Ben

While in England on a trends tour we found these icons, Big Ben wall decor and the Double Decker Bus Bunk  Beds. We are constantly searching for unique beds and accessories for kids. Here are just a few of our British discoveries. Currently the beds are not available for sale in the United States, but we are working on changing that.


Caravan Bed


Beefeater wall decor ready to guard your bedroom.

Camper Van

Set up for sleep and dreams of the surf.


Scallywags Loft Bed


Black BMW Bed – We enjoyed driving a-“round” in a sporty Vauxhall while remembering to drive on the left and learning to embrace roundabouts.

Map of London

Beginning  with a good map rather than driving around in circles (roundabouts) would have been wise. This one however is made to hang on your wall

Candy Cane Hearts

Our Christmas decorations are now all neatly packed away for another year. Once again there was a little over zealous purchasing in the candy cane department. What to do with slightly over a dozen of those peppermint-y seasonal sweet sticks?

Sprinkle Some Sunshine has a “sweet” pictorial on how to upcycle candy canes if you too have some left overs. All you need are of course the candy canes, 6″ lollipop sticks
1 cup white candy coating, like CandiQuik and sprinkles. Another Recipe for Fun.


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